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What Are Some Overlooked Signs That A Marriage Won't Last?

What are the marriage "red flags" that no one talks about?

You might be familiar with the obvious "red flags" that a couple might be headed for divorce, but sometimes, there are super subtle signs that no one would expect.

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So, we want to hear your thoughts: What are the tiny, overlooked signs that a marriage won't last?

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Like, maybe a couple who never, ever argue or disagree seem to be perfectly fine — but in reality, it can be a sign of a lack of communication or avoiding confrontation, which can build resentment over time.

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Perhaps you're a marriage counselor or relationship expert, and you've noticed that couples who aren't curious about each other — including their emotions, thoughts, interests, and desires — have a more superficial marriage that doesn't stand the test of time.

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Maybe you think a subtle sign a couple might not last is when they excessively post about their marriage on social media — as if they spend more time trying to convince others that their life is perfect when there might be more going on behind the scenes.

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Or perhaps you think a couple who prioritize other people — even family members or close friends — over each other might be headed for divorce.

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Based on your experience, what are the subtle or tiny signs a marriage won't last? (And be sure to explain why you feel that way.) Share your response in the comments, or if you prefer to remain anonymous, you can use the form below. Your response could be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post.